Dr Vanda’s Compassionate Advice

Time for a reality check

Communicating with Karl as my mourning deepens helps me find a blessing in every single day. With Karl’s support, in my every action, however small, I seek to express appreciation for all aspects of my life and to find ways to allow those perceptions to help me flourish. I feel I am making significant progress.

Some friends gently remark that I seem “softer”, less of a “control freak”!

By the time my first mourning year comes to an end, I am getting a bit cocky. It is time for a reality check. Life has other plans for me. And a harsh one is in store for me in early January 2017. Read more